Problem: So you’ve been dating for several months now. She stays at your place several nights a week. She has more stuff in your closet than you do. And she’s now begun asking that terrible question, “So, when are we gonna move in together?”
You can’t stall forever, but alas, you still don’t know if it’s a good idea to take that ever so committed leap of moving in together. After all, what happens when you piss her off or just want some alone time? And since you can’t sleep in the bar down the street, you want to be absolutely sure that this is someone you want you to lock yourself in a room with. So how do you do that without putting her on the lease?
1. Always watch what you say
Only a child or a fool misuses the power of his tongue. Words have the ability to build up or tear down. And once said, they can never be taken back. A gentleman chooses wisely.
2. Be a contributing member of society/Give without expecting anything in return
Be the first to say hello to a stranger passing you on the street. Give something back to someone less fortune than you whether that be time or money.
3. Speak up and make eye contact
Shifty eyes and a mumble of a low voice would put even the most trusting man on edge. Speaking up while looking into the other person’s eyes shows courage and respect.
4. Smile and make someone’s day with a well timed compliment
My dad used to tell me to smile even when I didn’t feel like it. I hated it, until I understood the reason. When you genuinely smile at someone, you remove the barrier of unfamiliarity. It makes you a welcoming presence and that, alongside a well timed “Nice shoes”, will make half the world fall in love with you.
We’ve done our best not to make it a habit of sticking our noses into other people’s business. We stay out of the gossip circle and try to focus on ways to make your life, as a true gentleman, inspiring and motivational. With that said, we can’t help but notice the lack of understanding when it comes to that important life changing phenomenon called love.
And sure, everyone has opinions (we certainly do) but these opinions of real love are just not true. And the sooner it’s cleared up, the better for you and future misses you.
5.) Real love or (true love) can happen at first sight.
We all know the question, “Do you believe in love at first sight?” Ummm, not really.
Trying to find the perfect birthday gifts for her can be almost impossible – regardless of whether or not the two of you have been together seemingly forever or if you’ve only recently started hooking up.
Hopefully though, with the inside information we are able to share with you below you won’t have to worry about struggling to find the perfect gift anymore.
With a little bit of creativity, a little bit of romance, the inside information below, and yes – even a little bit of luck – you’ll be all set, and you’ll never have to worry about birthday gift shopping ever again!
Let’s dive right in.
Top 10 Most Creative Birthday Gifts for Her
10. The “Babe, where are we going?” Gift
A friend of mine called me this morning sounding very desperate. He sounded like he’d committed some terrible crime. I asked him what the hell was his problem and he told me that he got a girl’s number. She was a very beautiful girl, he said. In fact, she could be one of the great ones.
“That’s great! So what’s the problem?”
“Our first real date is this Friday.”
“Oh ok. Sorry, I still don’t see the problem.”
“I don’t know where the hell to take her, man.”
“I’m new to this city, after all. And it’s not like I’m rollin in the Benjamins.”
“No of course not.”
“Do you any good spots around town? Unique spots? Maybe places that not everyone knows about. And also of course, not too pricey.”
I had to think about it for a second, but eventually I was able to think of a few.
Don’t mind the disco ball. (It’s just there for effect.)
Problem: Pretty Girl with Headphones = Unapproachable?
The process of getting a date can be a fragile one. There are a ton of things that you can do to show her your interested, but there are also specific things you should never EVER do if you want to have any hope of hearing her say those sweet words, “Yes, I’d love to go out to dinner with you.”
Those words are only a few breaths away, but you have to be careful. Because one wrong move can make the possibility of hearing them disappear forever.
My friend, lets call him “Overweight T-Shirt Guy”, is friends with a girl named Stephanie. Little does Stephanie know OTG has a crush on her. Lets follow my friend “OTG” and see what happens.
Whatever age you are and however many dates you’ve been on, the first date with someone new can always be a bit of a nervous occasion. Just remember, you’ve already done the hard part of actually landing the date, now we are going to show you how to let the skills that got you the date be the thing that guides you through it. The amount of things that need to be considered for a date can be intimidating –Where should you take her? What clothes do you wear? These are just some of the many questions you need to decide on before you even step foot out of your door.
You have three goals:
1.) You don’t want the date to go well, you want it to be extraordinary.
2.) You want to leave a good and MEMORABLE impression in her mind.
3.) And last but not least, You definitely want a 2nd and 3rd follow up date.
Lets get started.
The Scenario: You get invited to a party. The only person you know is also the host, who will undoubtedly be busy with a million different things.
You’re nervous because you don’t know anyone there but you’re excited because as a gentleman you’re aware of the opportunities this can present, and as a suspenderman you never ignore a chance to test your skills as a gentleman.
You ring the doorbell, enter the room, look over at the groups of unknown strangers standing with their drinks and talking.
What do you do?
It’s never really said out loud how uncomfortable parties can be if you don’t know any one. And even if you do, you certainly don’t want to latch on to one or two people the entire time you’re there.
It can be uncomfortable, sometimes downright unpleasant if you deem yourself the sort to sip on the same glass of beer all night and people watch.
With that said, there is a way to overcome the oppression of the I-have-no-idea-who-any-of-these-people-are-kill-me-now party.